“Be devoted to one another in brotherly love; give preference to one another in honor” (Romans 12:10, NASB).
Romans 12:10 emphasizes the affectionate, humble relationships that should characterize God’s family.
“Be devoted to one another” - Christians should possess sincere, family-like affection for one another. Our relationships should involve loyalty, concern, and commitment - not merely friendliness at worship services.
“In brotherly love” - The Greek word philadelphia refers to the love shared within a family. Through Christ, believers are spiritual brothers and sisters who genuinely care for one another.
“Give preference to one another” - Rather than insisting on our own desires, recognition, or convenience, we willingly place the needs and interests of others ahead of ourselves (Philippians 2:3-4).
“In honor” - Christians should actively look for opportunities to appreciate, encourage, and recognize the good qualities and faithful service of others.
Some practical ways that we can fulfill this divine instruction:
- Develop meaningful relationships with fellow Christians beyond the assembly.
- Notice those who may be lonely, discouraged, overlooked, or struggling.
- Speak words that encourage and build others up.
- Rejoice when another Christian receives recognition or succeeds.
- Yield personal preferences when doing so promotes peace and strengthens others.
- Treat every Christian as a valued member of God’s family.
Brotherly kindness is more than friendliness. It is the sincere, loyal, active affection Christians possess for one another because we are members of God’s family.