These comments are not made as an indictment of those who choose to sit on the back pew, nor are they observations that have been made here at Knollwood.

When we travel, we sometimes sit on the back pew when we are visiting other congregations. This gives us a new perspective on things, as we usually sit towards the front here at Knollwood, and I personally spend a good amount of time during the worship period in the pulpit facing the congregation.

Sitting in the back, it is easy to spot those who do not discipline their children. Some children have been taught how to sit quietly in the pew during worship services, while others have not. I am not talking about infants, but about children who are old enough to sit still in a classroom at school for hours, but have been allowed to play on the floor, squirm around, make countless trips to the bathroom, etc., during worship services. One time, Christy and I saw a man passing the Lord's Supper almost trip over a child who was allowed to play in the aisle. My appreciation goes to those parents who are training their children to sit respectfully. Others would do well to follow your good example.

Sitting in the back, it is easy to spot those who are checking in on social media on their cell phones or other devices. While it is possible for some people to "multi-task" (check such sites while still listening to the sermon), it is irreverent and inappropriate to do such a thing while we are worshiping our God and Savior. It is also a distraction and discouragement to those who see it. It can wait until after services.