What Would You Do?
By Steve Wolfgang

What follows is fictional, of course. According to some, it is pure fantasy. Indeed, it is imaginary.

As many have said, the truth is often stranger than fiction. Consider the following hypothetical situation:

Imagine a scenario in which you employ a trusted friend of long standing to watch over your home while you are away on a trip. You leave her the key to your house, with a few instructions and authorization to go into the house to check on its condition.

Upon your return, you discover that many items are missing from your house, mostly items of value that would not be noticeable to anyone who did not know where to look for them. Despite your initial disbelief and consternation, it becomes obvious you have been the victim of the crime of theft by this trusted, long-time friend.

But imagine further that this friend is also a fellow Christian. Imagine you decide that, rather than immediately report this crime to the police, you should first go to your sister and friend to try to resolve the problem privately, if possible.

Imagine that, when confronted, this sister/friend, after attempting to deflect the responsibility by talking about her depression and offering other excuses, finally makes a confession of sorts. She also pledges to make restitution of what has obviously been stolen.

Imagine your shock and dismay when you go to the bank within the next few days and discover that this trusted friend and sister, having gained access to your bank account numbers and passwords due to the trust you placed in her by giving her access to your property, has stolen other assets.

The amount you now realize has been stolen from you is several times greater than what your sister/friend originally admitted, even though it is obvious by now that she was well aware of the much larger scale of the theft when she made her original confession.

Imagine your sense of betrayal and your grief over the loss of a long-term friendship. Imagine also the sense of personal violation in having been defrauded. While you still have some of your assets, your ability to pay your bills is impaired, and funds that you perhaps had planned to use for your children's future benefit have been stolen-by a fellow Christian.

Even so, unwilling to take personal vengeance, and sue your sister in a civil suit to recover what she stole, you offer several alternative proposals for restitution (at pennies on the dollar, not even demanding that she repay the entire amount, since it is obviously so large-imagine that it exceeds $100,000-that it will never be fully repaid).

Imagine now that your sister totally ignores your initiatives, leaving the state without even acknowledging your attempts to settle the matter privately.

Imagine that you decide to call the police and report these crimes. Imagine that after they conduct their investigation, the result is that the state-performing its divinely-ordained function, per Romans 13, to punish evildoers--indicts her and decides to prosecute such felonies.

Imagine that, when confronted with a trial date, rather than go to trial to have her day in court and attempt to defend her innocence, this sister pleads guilty to multiple theft charges. Then imagine that, while awaiting the court's sentence, this sister-with help from her family and a few close friends-makes her defense by circulating to churches letters that attempt to diminish her guilt, omitting many relevant facts and misstating others.

Imagine that these letters attempt to make it appear that it is your fault that she stole (implying that since you gave her the key to your house, she was authorized to access your bank accounts to pay her expenses, or that you were too trusting and should have been more vigilant and suspicious), and that it is your fault that the state prosecuted her crimes.

Imagine that she invokes emotional images of her innocent children who will suffer because of her punishment for the crimes she committed, and attempts to make you the culprit for putting a poor woman in jail.

Imagine also that some brethren buy into this national victim mentality in which the criminal perpetrators are seen as the innocent victims, rather than those whom they truly victimized by their crimes. Imagine that several such brethren-without extending the common courtesy (to say nothing of brotherly kindness) to call or contact you to ascertain the veracity of such allegations-begin to circulate e-mails far and wide, post in churches letters filled with half-truths and significant omissions, and attempt to absolve this sister while placing the blame for her condition on you, rather than on her own behaviors.