Why Visit The Sick?:
- Not to satisfy personal curiosity. Curiosity seekers should stay at home.
- Not to promote a selfish interest. Do not visit the sick in order to gain praise as a good worker.
- Not because we have to visit. We should visit because we are willing to help.
- To help the sick and those who are deeply concerned. If you cannot help, your presence becomes a hindrance.
- To minister for Christ. He identified Himself with the unfortunate (Matthew 25:31-46).
Things That Help:
- A cheerful attitude. The patient needs a word of sunshine--not a shadow.
- Sympathetic understanding. Sympathy binds you to him, and him to you.
- A willing hand. Be prepared to serve.
- A hopeful word. Do not tell the patient that he doesn't look well. Speak uplifting words, or be silent.
- Try to smile and keep the conversation in a positive vein.
- A prayerful heart. "Father, restore him to health. Bless him and those who are caring for him."
- Cooperation with the doctor and nurse. Do not interfere with their plans; follow them.
- Seek to turn the patient's thoughts away from himself. Fixing one's mind on pain intensifies the pain; thinking about other things lessens it.
- Try to talk about things in which the patient is interested-not about yourself!
- Check with the patient's family to determine a specific time for your visit.
- End each visit with an uplifting prayer.
Things That Hinder:
- A visit that's too long. When you fulfill your mission, depart quietly.
- Careless, thoughtless words. Sick people are sensitive. Be careful what you say.
- A curious gaze. Do not stare at the patient.
- Discussing other depressing events.
- Talking about your own problems, or your aches and pains.
- Offering medical advice; let the doctors do that.
--Author Unknown-copied and edited by KMG
"She has done what she could..." {Mark 14:8}
What a wonderful sentiment if all Christians just did this much!